It happens. More to some than to others, but chances are that at some stage of your illustrious dating career youve been Dumped. Left behind, discarded like an old jersey, found to be no longer suitable. Ouch, it hurts, I know, and I am sure many of you know as well. What now? Get out the Chocolate fudge ice cream, sit in a corner and see how much of that can be consumed before you are actually physically sick to your stomach.
Not the greatest idea, yet we do it more often than not. Lets inflict some physical discomfort to go with the mental anguish and suffering. At least now we are a perfect bundle of misery and pain. But as Anthony Robbins says, its all in your attitude. You know you need to move on sooner or later, why not make it sooner, and short circuit some of that pain. Re-adjust your attitude from oh no woe is me to Thank goodness they are gone, to make space in my life for the person that is right for me Get that shift of thinking going and get out there to find them.
You are now embarking on that great new adventure called Dating. Are you terrified yet? No, well you should be, it can be a mine field out there, if you don't understand the rules. It's been said many times, it's a jungle out there. Are you going to be the prey or the predator. Here's how to not get eaten alive.
Be prepared. The old scouts saying can be a life saver here. Be aware of what you are doing, and what situations you could end up in.
Have a plan of action. Decide what it is you are looking for. A one night stand or the life partner to help raise your children. You might have figured out that different strategies would be required to attract the partner of your dreams.
Don't just go bumbling out into the night to the nearest bar hoping for the best. You are setting yourself up for disaster right from the start. Unless you are a closet martyr and like getting hurt. So what should you do? Well as in most things in life, a little education can go long way, and expert knowledge, can just about guarantee you success. So instead of buying another tub of ice cream, instead arm yourself with the correct knowledge.
Invest that money on finding out how to attract the right partner. The information is out there, spend a little time finding the right facts before trying to find the right partner. This will make your journey so much quicker and more pleasant. There are experts out there that have documented step by step processes that work.
People have changed, situations have changed, the rules of romance have changed. You owe it to yourself to get the best up to date information available. So to sum it all up: Be aware, be prepared, get the right information and then go for it.
And remember, do it now.
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